BOOK A SESSION

Couples Therapy

Relationships are not always easy and I understand this. Couples therapy will offer a supportive environment where you can explore feelings and thoughts with your partner in a safe environment. Whether you are navigating common relationship challenges, facing relational trauma or not sure to stay with one another, therapy can help you. In session we will learn what  each person needs, break unhealthy patterns, and build a foundation of trust and intimacy. Using evidence-based approaches, I will support you and your spouse towards a stronger, more resilient partnership.

Issues couples often bring to therapy:

  • Anxious and avoidant attachment cycles
  • Betrayal trauma
  • Infidelity
  • Financial stress
  • Division of labor
  • Sexual issues, including sex addiction and addiction to pornography
  • Emotional disconnect
  • Differences in parenting styles and values
  • Preparation for marriage and long-term partnership
  • Exploring divorce or reconciliation
  • Couples life transitions

If there is an issue you are facing that I have not listed, please submit an inquiry–this list is not exhaustive.

Types of couples I work with:

  • Heterosexual couples
  • Bisexual couples
  • Open relationships
  • Transgender relationships
  • Same-sex relationships
  • Relationships based in Judaism
  • Monogamous relationships

🏳️‍🌈  🇮🇱

Co-Parenting & Blended Family Strategies 

Modern families are complex–I’m here to walk you through that complexity with care and clarity.

As a co-parenting and blended family strategist, I help co-parents navigate the challenges of raising children between two homes. This includes never-married parents, single parents through divorce or death, and remarried parents (step/blended/bonus). Together, we will accomplish these goals:

  • Foster strong and respectful parenting relationships
  • Manage boundaries and communication across households
  • Support children through the transitions involved
  • Manage competing attachments
  • Blend households in a healthy, sustainable way

Every family system is unique. Together, we’ll build a plan that fits yours.

Healing After Infidelity

A 3–6 Month Evidence-Based Approach to Repair, Reconnection & Lasting Change

Healing after infidelity requires more than talking about what happened. Betrayal can create an attachment injury and trauma response, while also exposing relationship patterns that need to be understood and changed.

Our structured 3–6 month Infidelity Healing Program combines individual trauma processing with couples therapy to support both personal healing and relationship repair.

PHASE 1: Months 1-3

Trauma Processing & Stabilization

During the first 2–3 months, treatment may include:

  • Two individual trauma-processing sessions to address the emotional impact of the betrayal
  • Ongoing couples therapy focused on safety, accountability, communication, and rebuilding trust
  • Evidence-based approaches including EMDR, trauma-informed/sensorimotor interventions, and Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT)

The goal is to help reduce the intensity of trauma responses while creating enough emotional safety for meaningful couples work.

PHASE 2: Months 3-6

Relationship Repair & Reconnection

As the acute trauma begins to settle, treatment transitions primarily into couples therapy.

Together, we work to identify and break old relationship patterns, strengthen emotional responsiveness, repair the attachment injury, and create new ways of connecting.

The goal is not simply to move past the infidelity. It is to help couples heal what happened, understand what needs to change, and build a relationship that feels safer, more connected, and more secure moving forward.

Expertise & Training

Specialties

Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) for Couples

An evidence-based, attachment-focused approach that helps couples identify negative cycles, restore emotional safety, and strengthen their bond. Lexi uses EFT to guide partners toward deeper connection and lasting change.

Lexi provides expert support for co-parents and blended families, helping them navigate complex dynamics, improve communication, and build collaborative, respectful relationships that prioritize the well-being of everyone involved.

Using the highly regarded Prepare/Enrich framework, Lexi helps couples explore key areas of compatibility, improve conflict resolution, and lay a strong foundation for marriage through guided, research-based conversations.

Grounded in a body-mind approach, Lexi incorporates somatic principles to support clients in reconnecting with their bodies, processing stored emotions, and increasing resilience—especially in the face of stress, overwhelm, or trauma.

Lexi applies CBT techniques to help individuals identify unhelpful thought patterns, develop practical coping strategies, and shift behaviors that contribute to anxiety, depression, and emotional distress.

Trained in EMDR, Lexi supports clients in processing and healing from trauma by targeting distressing memories, reducing emotional reactivity, and fostering a greater sense of peace and integration.

Lexi will provide a safe  space and support while processing  in a bit size for a big transition such as divorce, loss of loved ones or moving. She will help you find the new “norm” and joy once again! 

A body-based approach to trauma healing that helps you connect with sensations, emotions, and movement. Through guided drawing and sensorimotor techniques, we work with the nervous system to process experiences that may be difficult to put into words. 

Scroll to Top